A steady approach to difficult situations
Family law issues can bring a lot of uncertainty. This firm focuses on helping people slow things down, understand what’s happening, and make informed decisions about what comes next. With a thoughtful and practical approach, clients are guided through each step with clear communication and a steady sense of direction.
Our Mission and Values
Guiding every case we take with integrity, compassion, and expertise.
Justice for Every Client
We are dedicated to ensuring every client receives the justice they deserve, no matter how complex the case.
Compassionate Advocacy
We approach each case with empathy and care, recognizing the emotional toll legal challenges can take.
Professional Excellence
Our team strives for the highest standards of professionalism and expertise in every aspect of our work.
Client-Centered Approach
Your needs, rights, and goals are at the forefront of everything we do.
“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not fighting the old, but on building the new.”
My Mission
I formed Tanzosh Family Law LLC in March of 2010 to provide optimal services for clients, after building extensive litigation experience since 1999 and receiving mentoring from the top family law firms in Portland. My proactive and attentive practice style is designed to develop a team approach with each client in reaching the best resolution, whether through compromise or trial, together.
The great Chinese war leader, Sun Tzu, stated in The Art of War, “he who knows when he can fight and when he cannot, will be victorious.” If the other party is not going to be reasonable, there is a judicial system I trust. As to those cases that need a judge or jury to decide, I represent clients in court effectively and with honor.
Litigation has a cost, however, financially and emotionally. As Sun Tzu also states, “the greatest victory is that which requires no battle.” To that end, I extended my practice to handling mediations. Assisting others in resolving controversy, with or without attorneys, requires a complimentary and advanced skill set, especially in family law.
My mission is to attain the best outcome for clients with the least amount of destruction on the family. Uniting litigation and mediation is the way to achieving that goal. Please contact Tanzosh Family Law LLC today.
Experience matters
Education & Background
A strong foundation in both education and hands-on experience shapes the way cases are approached. From formal legal training to ongoing work in negotiation, mediation, and collaborative law, the focus has always been on helping people navigate complex situations with clarity and practical guidance. This background supports a balanced approach that prioritizes thoughtful decision-making, steady communication, and long-term outcomes.
- Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy, The American University, 1996
- Juris Doctorate, University of Maryland School of Law, 1999
- Gain The Edge! Negotiation Strategies for Lawyers, Latz Negotiation Institute , 2004
- Training in Collaborative Law from Collaborative Family Law Professionals of Oregon & SW Washington, 2005
- Training in Mediation from Genesis Mediation LLC, 2015
Meet Our Other Team Members
Our team of dedicated attorneys and legal professionals
is here to guide you every step of the way.
Mary Stade
The Strength of the Team
Mary Stade brings a unique blend of high-stakes precision and human-centered leadership to Tanzosh Family Law. As a seasoned Family Law Paralegal, Mary is the operational engine behind the scenes, ensuring that every case is handled with the meticulous attention to detail it deserves. Her background in family law gives her a sharp perspective on the complexities of legal transitions and a steady hand when navigating difficult circumstances.
Strategic Leadership, On and Off the Court
Outside of the office, Mary’s life is defined by a different kind of advocacy. Known in the community as “Coach Mary,” she is the Head Coach and Market Owner of the Willamette Valley Jaguars, a professional men’s basketball team. She made history by leading the first all-female coaching staff in men’s professional basketball—a testament to her belief that leadership is about merit, mentorship, and building a culture of mutual respect.
Driven by Community
Whether she is managing a complex legal file or coaching from the sidelines, Mary’s philosophy remains the same: people come first. A “basketball scholar” who studied the game from a young age, she applies that same intellectual curiosity and strategic thinking to her legal work.
A native of Michigan’s Upper Peninsula and a graduate of Western Michigan University, Mary has called Oregon home for decades. When she isn’t at the firm or the arena, she is likely attending local Chamber meetings, advocating for youth mentorship, or enjoying life as a dedicated dog mom.
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